Blessing Your Husband

As a Mom, it is so easy to put your marriage on the back burner and focus on the kids.  They are only going to be in your home for a short time, and they really do need a lot of attention.  But it is so very important to make your marriage a priority.  I try to find small ways everyday to show my Hubby that he is important to me.

I wake up with him before he leaves for work.  He gets up at 3:30am, gets dressed and heads downstairs.  I wake up between 3:30 and 4am and go with him.  I like to get his coffee ready, make him breakfast (if time permits), and pack his lunch.  I’ll make his breakfast fresh for him- eggs and bacon, a breakfast sandwich, but sometimes we’re rushing (MONDAYS! ugh, lol) and I don’t have time.  Just getting a bowl of cereal for him is helpful.  He likes having someone to talk to in the quiet before he leaves.  And because I’m up with him, helping him get ready, we get to sit down and chat for a bit or watch the news.

Another way I bless my Hubby is by doing his laundry.  Yes, he is a big boy.  Yes, he knows how to do his own laundry.  But, I have the time, I’m home, and I like to do it.  I also try to get done any other chores that will help him have a more restful weekend.

I also like to let him sleep in on the weekends.  I’m always up early to get the kids to their activities, getting the house straightened up, or getting breakfast ready.  I won’t wake up Hubby unless absolutely necessary.  My thoughts on this, I do get up early with him through the week, but if I’m tired during the day, I take a nap.  He can’t nap during the week, so he gets to sleep in. 🙂

He doesn’t expect any this, but I would be ok with it if he did.  He works hard for his family, and he deserves to be pampered.  I think *some* women feel like preparing meals for men, bringing them coffee, etc is demeaning, because for a long time- women didn’t have a choice.  Those things were expected of them.  They are not now, and I’m grateful that I have the choice, but this is the choice that I’m making, and it seems like a lot of women are doing the same. I’m happy to see homemaking becoming more popular.  I see lots of stay at home wives…not just moms, but women without children.  As I’ve said before, homemaking has always been very close to my heart.  I love everything about it.  It really warms my heart to see so many wives falling in love with it, as well.

❤️Courtney

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Weekend Breakfast: Egg Scramble

Ahh, the weekend. Lazy days, sleeping in, nowhere to go, and nothing to do but enjoy your time.

Hahah, yeah right! As a housewife, I am running my kids back and forth, running errands…you know the drill. This morning I was up at 6 to take my daughter, M, to her volunteer activity. I got home around 8 and got breakfast going for Hubby and I.

I made an egg scramble. Scrambles are awesome because you can literally make it with whatever you have on hand. I used Colby jack cheese, bacon, a leftover baked potato and a jalapeño from the garden.

I started by frying the bacon.

Then I shredded the cheese.

Next up, I sautéed the jalapeño and tossed in my chopped up potato.

I added the eggs directly to the pan with the potatoes and the peppers, and once they were set, I added the bacon pieces. Scramble everything together, transfer to your plate or bowl and sprinkle the cheese on top.

Another of my favorite combinations is sausage, onions and peppers.

I’m glad I remembered to take pictures this morning. It’s been a while since I shared a weekend breakfast with you guys.

❤️Courtney

Holiday Planning: Week 2

Good morning!

We have had some beautiful sunrises this week. After 3 years in Tucson, I am still amazed at the beauty of the Desert. ❤️

On to the holiday prep!

How are you coming along? Please tell me what you’ve been working on.

This week I did my shopping. I got my turkey- well, I got one of them. I decided to roast a turkey and smoke two turkey breasts. I could not find a decent sized turkey breast at our grocery store. They had the little ones, I’ve never bought them, but I think it’s just lunch meat. It has a very unnatural oval shape to it. Lol And I don’t want to serve that for The Big Day.

Anyway, I did my shopping and I did most of it from memory because, of course, I forgot my list. I have a few more things to pick up, and then I’ll be done.

Hubby’s work does a Thanksgiving potluck for the employees the week before- tomorrow actually! Hubby signed up to bring stuffing. I usually just make my classic stuffing for him to take, but not this year. He found a recipe for smoked cornbread stuffing, and will be taking that. I made the cornbread and got the sausage, onions and celery ready to go. Today, I’ll get it all together and Hubby will toss it in the smoker when he gets home. I don’t know if I’ll be able to stay out of it! Yummmy

This weekend we have some overnight guests, so I’m also getting the house ready for them. It’s a very old and dear friend. We don’t get to see each other very often, but talk almost daily. I can’t wait to see her and her family! ❤️❤️❤️

I’ve been very busy, and I haven’t been able to keep up with my Holiday Planning blogs. I was hoping to share more details and pictures, but time got away from me.

I’d love to know what you all have been up to!

❤️Courtney

Whats’s Cookin’, Good Lookin’?

Do you remember that song? “Heyyyyy good lookin’, whatcha got cookin’” My dad used to sing that song around the house a lot. I still get it stuck in my head sometimes when I’m cooking. 🙂

Anyway- 

I thought I would share my menu for the week. I like to prepare menus for dinner. It keeps me focused on getting dinner prepared on time. 5:00 isn’t going to roll around and I’ll have no idea what I’m making for dinner.


Monday- Leftovers. Always. 

Tuesday- Grilled pork chops, grilled zucchini.

Wednesday- Smoked tips. Or burnt ends. I can’t remember what Hubby called them. Either way- he’s in charge of dinner this night. Salad on the side. 

Thursday- Grilled chicken, roasted or grilled brussel sprouts. 

Friday- Homemade pizza, cauliflower pizza for Hubby and I. 

Saturday- Smoked pork roast for sandwiches, cole slaw. 

Sunday- Family Dinner Day, also Hubby and my cheat day.  I haven’t planned our meal yet. 

I would love to hear about your menu! Or a link to your blog if that is something you share. 

❤️ Courtney

The Lost Art of Homemaking

Ahhh, the 1950’s. A simpler time. Sock hop music, poodle skirts, smaller houses, single car households, single income households, wives at home in their aprons.  Its so easy to romanticize that time period. It sounds perfect to so many of us, myself included. 

That picture perfect lifestyle was not for everyone though. My moms side of the family did not live in a quaint neighborhood. She grew up in the mountains. They didn’t have a lot of money.  Even though my grandmas 1950’s life didn’t involve drive in movie dates with her husband, or grabbing a burger and shake at the local sock hop, her ideals were the same. Family first, cooking from scratch, a simple life. 

I don’t know when this changed. But I’m sorry it did.  As a whole, our focus is now on money. Who has the nicest house? Who drives the nicest car? Who has the best toys?  Babies are being raised by their daycare providers. Teenagers are being left to make decisions without a parents guidance. 

My passion is at home. I love caring for my husband, our children and our home.  My priority has always been my family. I never wanted the career or a fast paced lifestyle. I love to spend time in my home decorating, cooking, playing games with my family. Even just bumming around watching movies. 

If you spend time making dinner for your family, think about them while you’re cooking. When you make dinner with a happy heart you are cooking with love.  It’s the same with cleaning or decorating, washing dishes or doing laundry.  If you make it your passion, choose to be joyful while you’re doing it, you’re blessing your family and your home.  

Don’t think of grocery shopping as just another chore on the list.  Do the shopping with love in your heart and you’re being intentional about making healthy choices and choosing items to please yourself and your family. 

This is the lost art of homemaking. Blessing your family and your home. It’s so easy to get caught up in day to day life- Work and keeping up with the Jones’s.  Let’s get back to the simpler life. Back to the good ol’ days. Let’s be intentional with our days and bless our home and families. Let’s revive the lost art of homemaking. ❤️

17 Pounds- Gone!

😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

I can hardly believe it. Five weeks of low carb eating, minimal exercise, and I’ve lost 17 pounds.  I’m over halfway to my first goal. 30 pounds. 

I seem to have come to a standstill. It’s been about a week and I’m still at 17 pounds. I’m going to be a little more careful about my serving sizes and more intentional with my exercise. 

It has been a huge help having my hubby do this with me. In the past I’ve tried lots of different weight loss techniques. But doing it by myself, I was not successful.  This time though, Hubby has been walking with me, having an interest in carb counting and even helping me shop. 

One of my biggest struggles is sweets. I have a huge sweet tooth!  We would have ice cream almost nightly. (It’s hot here! We needed it to cool down 😉) Now that we’re low carb, I’ve tried to make sweets with stevia and almond flour and it’s just not the same. It has the artificial, diet-y taste and Hubby and I do not like that. So that makes it easy to stay away from sweets. 

I feel like low carb dieting is so much more successful for us because it doesn’t feel like we’re dieting.  We eat pretty much whatever we want- lots of veggies, meats, I can even use ranch dressing on salads. Not having sweets really was the hardest part, but I just had to get out of he habit of having them. After a week or so, it wasn’t such a struggle. 

Do you have a weight loss story to share? I would love to hear it! Hearing about others successes motivates me. 

Life Happens

Tomorrow is October. October?!? I cannot believe September flew by like this. I mean, I can hardly register what happened over the course of this month. It was full of stress for my daughter, calls and emails to her school to try to make things right, lots of trip to the orthodontist, a hospital stay, doctors appointments and tons and tons of driving.  What a crazy month, I am glad it’s over and I hope October is a little better to us. 

In every dark time there is a little light. Sometimes it’s hard to see. Our light was our family growing closer. We’ve always been tight knit, but this helped us to see the big picture..helped to realize not to sweat the small stuff. 

I am thankful to God for getting us through the hard times. I am thankful for my family pulling together and taking care of each other. I am thankful for my husband, my children and that we are all here today.  


I got this image from the Bible App. I try to spend some time reading the Bible everyday, but life happens. It needs to be a priority, and I’m working on it.  But for now, I lean a lot on the Verse of the Day.  I’ve found it is spot on for whatever I’m going through.  This image was today’s verse and I am definitely finding comfort in it. 

Thanks for reading. I hope you have a blessed weekend. ❤️